
January 2003
Volume 2, Issue 1
Please forward submissions
to In the Vineyard to leaderpub@votf.org.
In the Vineyard
"God with us, Emmanuel"
For Catholics all
over the world, the year 2002 will long be remembered as a turning point.
Catholic laity everywhere voiced a resounding call for inclusion in the
healing and the future of our Church. The voices raised have not abated
while the number of concerned Catholics across the US and around the world
grows daily.
VOTF is well aware
that the source of this restored communion is the discovery of the many
gifts born of many voices. The survivors who spoke the truth "made straight
the way" for an awakened laity and an increasingly supportive clergy.
Only together do we animate Christ's words, "Where two or more are gathered
in My Name, there so am I." As we heard in many parishes throughout Advent,
Christ is born again and again - our year, our day, our moment is ever
new. This gift is nowhere more evident than in the stories told in this
newsletter.
Susan Troy, national
chair of VOTF Prayerful Voice, responded recently to a media question
about advice for the new interim administrator in the Boston Archdiocese
- Bishop Lennon. Her words mark the pilgrim journey we share with fresh
truth in a New Year for Catholics everywhere.
He
should see the victim survivors who have come forth with their stories,
and who have remained committed to the demand for truth, as the new prophets
and martyrs of our Faith. They point the way toward the greatest truths
of our Christian Faith - that light shall triumph over darkness and that
each individual is a Christ-bearer. The laity, Voice of the Faithful,
have learned these lessons from the victim/survivors and our Faith is
greater.
Our
resolve to change the structures that led to this crisis is growing daily.
Bishop Lennon must learn to trust those prophets and to trust the faithful.
I truly believe, after months of listening to hundreds of Catholics throughout
the archdiocese who have joined Voice of the Faithful, that the true strength
of the Church lies in these very people.
Peggie
L. Thorp
Editor
From the Executive
Director
Steve Krueger
Emmanuel, "God
with us."
Like
the three kings before us, VOTF "came bearing gifts" on January 6th, the
Feast of the Epiphany. With candlelight vigils that evening, affiliates
around the region brought wrapped presents to the steps of their cathedrals
and churches, symbolizing the many gifts to be found among laity everywhere,
and in silent protest to the VOTF bannings that have occurred around the
country.
For VOTF
members, much of our focus has been on the relationship between the gifts
of the laity and their use by the Church. So, it seems appropriate at
this time to remind ourselves of the abundant gifts many of us have witnessed
within our own organization. We are indeed blessed by this bounty of skills
and time that benefit all of us. We have been blessed with a unique opportunity
to see hope acted out in prayerful discernment toward the building of
a stronger and healthier Church.
Wherever
you go - from Maine to California - VOTF members share a deep love for
the Church. Although we may experience honest disagreement as we stand
in our own truth, there is a bond among our members that unites us, and
is one of our strongest assets. It fortifies our hope and galvanizes our
commitment.
Here
in Boston, a small but dedicated staff of volunteers - including your
officers and trustees - employees, and consultants serve VOTF. Our purpose
here is to build an organizational and technological infrastructure where
all voices will be heard and one that will continue to attract Catholics
around the world. It is fair to say that those who serve feel called to
do so and bring their gifts unselfishly to help fulfill the mission of
VOTF. We are not here to make decisions for you. We are here to
empower your voice in responding to the abuse of power we have
witnessed in our beloved Church.
At the
same time it is prudent to remember the enormity of the tasks we have
undertaken. First, we are learning to bring our gifts to a hierarchical
Church that has not actively sought to engage the voice of the laity.
Second, in bringing our gitfs to the Church we are faithfully called to
prayerfully discern them, as individuals and as an organization. Third,
as we move ahead to fulfill our mission we are learning to use our collective
gifts to build our own organization. All of this suggests that as we grow
as individuals, as an organization, and as Church, we are witnessing a
"work in process". For now there will be more questions than there are
answers and we must embrace this and not be discouraged.
We acknowledge
and discern our journey, witness the gifts of those of those around us,
offer ours to them, and seek inclusion for all.

WORKING
GROUP REPORTS
VOTF
Protecting Our Children
Since May, our core
group has met on Tuesday evenings, at the same time and place as other
VOTF Working Groups. Early on, we planned the presentations and handouts
for our session at the July 20th VOTF Convention. Our speakers, Jetta
Bernier and Tim Nichols, provided leads to the functions on which we now
focus. These are as follows: finding and helping to establish child sexual
abuse prevention programs; sharing with Parish Religious Education Programs,
with parents and with other caregivers, the resources, including speakers,
that we have researched and that have been recommended to us. Over these
months, we have e-mailed notes on our meetings to convention participants
who asked to be kept informed.
The VOTF Board of
Trustees unanimously accepted (9/16) our proposal to join a group of state
and private agencies, the Massachusetts Child Sexual Abuse Prevention
Partnership (MCSAPP), with the focus on abuse prevention. Early in December,
our two delegates met with other members of the MCSAPP to discuss the
nature of the Partnership, the membership, media relations and plans for
a statewide conference. The two-day conference, scheduled for early in
the spring, will involve parents, teachers and other professionals working
with children. We will be responsible for the logistics of the conference
and will be looking for VOTF colleagues to join us, working on and attending
this important gathering.
At our most recent
meeting, we shared with a representative of the Structural Change Working
Group our frustration at the Archdiocese's delay (since 10/7/02) in responding
to the report of the Commission for the Protection of Children of the
Archdiocese of Boston. We agreed that the Commission's recommendations
should be approved and implemented immediately.
Our mission statement
and goals appear on the Protecting
Our Children link of the VOTF website. Our e-mail is votfprotect@yahoo.com.
VOICES,
VOICES EVERYWHERE!
From VOTF Affiliate
SE Wisconsin
Reported by Terry Ryan, Coordinator
Christmas greetings
to all VOTF members throughout the world! We offer a prayer of thanks
this season for the example of patience, courage, truth, concern and persistence
that has been demonstrated by the actions of so many of the faithful during
the past year. The grassroots involvement that we have witnessed and experienced
has been a sign of hope for our Church.
We did not hold a
general meeting in December but various working groups met to develop
action plans for the new year. With the help of a canon lawyer and a theologian
who are VOTF members, the Structural Voice group wrote a scholarly letter
to Archbishop Dolan that analyzed the revised norms adopted by the USCCB
in Washington, DC. The letter raised specific questions and also highlighted
areas that need further clarification. In addition, the steering committee
submitted a letter to Archbishop Dolan requesting full disclosure of the
extent of clergy sexual abuse in our Archdiocese and the associated costs.
We received a brief response to the first letter and are awaiting a response
to the full disclosure request.
Our next meeting on
1/9 will feature Michael Crosby, OSBC, who will speak on "The Voice of
the Faithful in a Clerical Church." Peace and Courage everyone!
From VOTF Indiana
Reported by Lola McIntyre - Regional Indiana Coordinator
VOTF-Indiana sends
a warm "Happy New Year" to everyone. Our membership is growing, and there
has been a request to start a new affiliate in Fort Wayne/South Bend.
We have established monthly meetings in Indianapolis through May, when
we will install our first elected officers in the Indianapolis affiliate.
The winter months
are devoted to investigating cases in Indiana (specifically in Indianapolis
at this point) and learning more about our Indiana laws and elected law
makers.
We will have 4 brainstorming
sessions this January, one for each goal, and the fourth for membership
growth. Last October, we were delighted to share our Hoosier hospitality
with the New York Times. We were surprised to be called by NYT
correspondents Sam Dillon and Laurie Goodstein. They flew to Indianapolis,
interviewed several VOTF-Indiana members, and wrote a very favorable article
for VOTF; it was published on the front page of their 11/10 Sunday edition,
just before the Bishop's meeting in November. We were happy to hear from
many of you who read the article that it helped to increase your membership.
There has been a turn of atmosphere in all e-mails received since early/mid
December. Perhaps the resignation of Cardinal Law, release of more damning
records, and the favorable nationwide media coverage for VOTF, is building
interest and action among more Indiana Catholics.
From VOTF Affiliate
NE Iowa, Dubuque
Reported by Dave
Wanamaker, Coordinator
Here in Dubuque we
will be contacting our legislators to ask them to enact a law requiring
all clergy to be mandatory reporters of child abuse. Currently, all teachers
and most state workers in Iowa are so required.
A nearby parish adopted
a rule in November that all non-parish affiliated groups may not use the
facilities unless they provide proof of insurance - a "convenient" way
to deal with VOTF.
The Archbishop of
Dubuque, Jerome Hanus, has steadfastly refused to release names of 19
priests, credibly-accused of sex abuse (Dubuque Telegraph Herald,
10/26/2002). Eight of these priests are still alive. Archbishop Hanus's
Review Board has refused communication with VOTF. In 1994, Archbishop
Hanus said at a Linkup Conference that "the Church must learn the language
of those who have endured sexual abuse….I'm firmly convinced that full
disclosure, the widest possible, should be our policy as long as it doesn't
further hurt the victim." It is difficult to reconcile the Archbishop's
1994 remarks with his behavior since then.
From Nashville,
TN Parish Voice
Reported by Elizabeth Warren
Nashville VOTF began
in July 2002. Our firstt meeting was held at a public library and then
at St. Ann's. On August 17, 2002, Bishop Kmiec met with and responded
to questions presented in writing by members.
The group broke into
the following committees: Healing; Supporting Priests/Spirituality; Protecting
Children; Policy and Practice; and Structure and Leadership. The committees
drafted goals and committee mission statements that were used to create
a mission statement and list of major goals for the entire group. Our
first major goal is the re-establishment of a diocesan pastoral council
for the Nashville Diocese, the majority of whose membership is selected
by the laity. In mid-December, we sent Bishop Kmiec a letter requesting
the prompt re-establishment of such a council and enclosed the signatures
of over 200 Catholics who wished to indicate their individual support.
We have not yet received a response from the bishop.
In the meantime,
we continue to work on other goals. As part of our effort to support priests,
we sent Christmas greetings to all ofthe priests in the diocese. We plan
on having additional activities of support for our priests and the survivors.
From New York City,
NY VOTF Affiliate (Manhattan, Bronx, Staten Island)
Reported by Maria Coffey and David Pais, Regional Co-Coordinators
Here in NYC we're
feeling that, indeed, the new year does bring with it hope and a renewed
sense of purpose. We're preparing for elections of new leadership in February
and we prayerfully anticipate a Spirit-driven infusion of energy and ideas.
Our affiliate has
been extremely fortunate in having the consistent support and encouragement
of St. Francis Xavier's pastor, Ned Coughlin. Since our first meeting
at Xavier, on 7/15/2002, in the small side-chapel, we have prayed and
listened and examined various ways to be true to the VOTF Mission and
Goals, and to what we have heard in our listening sessions. We have now
outgrown the chapel but VOTF members come together monthly to welcome
new people, listen, plan, discuss and, sometimes, disagree.
In an effort to address
the three goals, we've invited SNAP and survivors to speak at general
meetings; we have also been addressed by Fr. Coughlin. We have wrestled
in Steering Committee meetings and in general meetings with Goal #3. Hopefully,
the many questions raised will be answered in 2003.
We hope to refine
our NYC VOTF goals and develop stronger relationships with others in the
greater NY area and with VOTF nationally. We are particularly grateful
to Jim Post for coming to speak to us on a frightfully rainy evening in
October. We're sure he recognized in this NY audience the sadness, outrage,
sense of betrayal and bewilderment that marked the beginnings of this
movement in Boston.
We also want to thank
the many people in Boston who have answered endless questions and guided
us to where we are now. We look forward to a prayerful, strong, supportive
and compassionate National VOTF in 2003.
From VOTF Diocese
of Brooklyn, NY
Reported by Melissa Gradel
VOTF is alive and
growing in the Diocese of Brooklyn, NY! Encompassing NYC's two most populous
boroughs, Brooklyn and Queens, this diocese has 1.8 million Catholics
and is the sixth largest in the US.
Banned from diocesan
property, Brooklyn VOTF has been meeting at St. Francis College. Started
in October by nine parishioners from the Oratory Church of St. Boniface,
this affiliate now has 140 members from 21 parishes. Our 12/10 meeting
featured guest speaker Fr. John Bambrick, a New Jersey priest and a victim
of clergy sexual abuse. He has become an outspoken advocate for victims
and for change within the Church. Over 100 people attended this emotionally
powerful meeting. Thanks to the hospitality of St. Francis College, VOTF
will meet again on 1/15.
The Rockaway Beach
(Queens) VOTF affiliate, initiated by parishioners from St. Camillus,
St. Rose of Lima, St. Thomas More and St. Francis de Sales, has planned
a 1/29 meeting at an American Legion Hall to tell others in the Rockaways
about VOTF. In Brooklyn's Park Slope neighborhood, a third affiliate is
in formation drawing members from St. Augustine, St. Savior and St. Francis
Xavier parishes.
The Brooklyn and Rockaway
Beach affiliates have been working together to plan an observance of Epiphany
on 1/6. Together with VOTF friends from Manhattan, we will gather at St.
James Cathedral to mark this feast when three wise (lay) men presented
their gifts to the infant Jesus. With song and scripture readings we will
pray for God's guidance in the wise employment of our gifts. Noting that
1/6 is also the anniversary of the Boston Globe's first major story about
the cover up of clergy sexual abuse in Boston, and also noting that Bishop
Daily's ban of VOTF is in fact a rejection of the gift of lay participation,
we will offer our gifts symbolically to the Church - Wisdom, Courage,
Real Life Experience and Financial Acuity.
On a hopeful note,
Bishop Daily has assigned a committee to meet with us to begin dialogue
about his decision to ban VOTF meetings. On 1/18, six VOTF members will
meet with the committee, which was headed by Auxiliary Bishop Ignatius
Catanello. Please pray for reconciliation and openness in Brooklyn!
From VOTF Affiliate
New York City East Side Affiliate
Reported by Francis X. Piderit
The New York East
Side Affiliate of VOTF held its first meeting on 12/17 with members in
attendance from Church of the Holy Family on East 47th Street. We had
a vigorous discussion on the state of the American RC Church today and
how, through this crisis, the laity is being called to a much greater
role in the work of the Kingdom. We discussed the specific issues surrounding
Cardinal Law's resignation and the recent modifications to the national
guidelines. We also discussed the larger question of how we can prepare
others and ourselves in our faith community to assume the new responsibilities
to which we are called. We believe it is possible and very important to
reach out to the leadership of the Archdiocese in a positive rather than
a confrontational spirit. We hope to demonstrate that we are fellow workers
in the Church prepared to support in every way possible the priests who
are our shepherds.
The collective energy
of the American laity has scarcely been tapped and VOTF is just beginning.
We are excited about the work to be done, and plan to meet monthly through
2003. While turnout was hurt by many Christmas activities, we received
many e-mail messages of encouragement, having reached out to the parishioners
of St. John the Evangelist on East 55th Street. We plan to be in touch
with parishioners at St. Ignatius Loyola on Park Avenue and introduce
ourselves to the respective pastors of these communities. Our next meeting
is 1/28.
From VOTF Affiliate
Northern New Jersey
Reported by Maria Cleary
Things in New Jersey
are as hectic and spirited as ever! Almost 200 people attended our November
meeting at St. Mary's in Pompton Lakes to hear Tony Massimini. Tony's
talk was wonderful and inspiring, but drew some folks from Faithful Voice
who spoke out with an opposing point of view. Despite having to ask one
person to leave, we kept the meeting under control and are forewarned
for future meetings.
We had a beautiful
liturgy for the holidays with some of our team and their families, and
another liturgy at St. Joseph's in Mendham with our SNAP brothers and
sisters. We hope to add some regular prayer gatherings to our schedule
for the new year.
Our next meeting is
on 1/15 at Our Lady of Mercy in Whippany. We are privileged to have Fr.
John Bambrick, a survivor of sexual abuse by clergy, speak to us. February's
meeting will feature Deal Hudson from Crisis magazine, an oft-quoted
critic of VOTF. Deal will give us his thoughts on the root causes of the
problems in the Catholic Church.
In response to our
members' interest in action, we have formed a few Action Committees; survivor
support, priests' support, prayerful voice and finance. The Finance Committee
has asked for and received the financial statements from our diocese for
the past 10 years. We encourage other VOTF affiliates and Parish Voices
to do the same.
Our New Year's resolution
is to strengthen the ties that bind us within VOTF. We were delighted
to make the trek to Boston on 12/7 to meet our New England colleagues.
It was such a joy to put faces and e-mails together! Some of our tri-state
friends from NY and CT have already been in touch as we try to network
our Parish Voices. We're working toward regular regional contact as well
as greater contact with Boston.
We are starting an
on-line chat room on Sundays from 8-9 pm on AOL Instant Messenger as a
first step to networking. We would appreciate any additional input from
other PVs on the subject of community building around the VOTF world.
From VOTF Affiliate
Hartford, CT
Reported by Mary Ann Murray, Regional Coordinator
Greetings to all.
The Greater Hartford Archdiocese is planning a meeting of all the Parish
Voice affiliates along with VOTF National representative Mary Ann Keyes
on 1/18. Each affiliate will submit discussions points. This will be the
first time all six affiliates will meet to discuss future plans and procedural
process. We are looking forward to working together for the healing and
renewal of the Catholic Church.
From VOTF Greater
West Hartford, CT
Reported by Jayne O'Donnell
The Parish Voice group
of Greater West Hartford has drawn up and passed with full consensus of
our membership a "Resolution of Solidarity and Support." The Parish Voice
of Sts. Patrick and Anthony, Hartford, have also signed the Resolution.
We have sent it to the Hartford Courant, our citywide newspaper, and believe
they will print it in a year-end piece.
We pray for a new
year filled with Christ's peace.
(Ed. Note: Readers
are welcome to contact Jayne for a copy of the Greater West Hartford Resolution
at JayneDIrish@aol.com.)
From St. Thomas
More Parish Voice, Durham, NH
Reported by Lorraine Graham
St. Thomas More Parish
Voice had our first Listening Session in September and has continued to
meet on the second Wednesday of each month. We have welcomed parishioners
from churches in Dover, Exeter, Somersworth, Portsmouth, Lee and Durham.
At our November meeting,
Diane Lavoie from Sexual Assault Support Services conducted an informative
workshop on child sexual abuse.
We plan to move from
a Steering Committee to officers and a more established affiliate in January.
Also, on 1/22 we will sponsor a presentation by Sr. Carole Descoteaux,
CSC, to discuss "The Role of the Laity - Their Rights and Responsibilities."
Sr. Carole has been enthusiastically received by other NH affiliates.
From St. Pius V,
Lynn, MA
Reported by Jack Whelan
We are proposing a
citywide VOTF meeting for Wednesday, 1/29. Several parishes participate
in our group so this will be an opportunity to show other concerned Catholics
throughout the City of Lynn that we are here as fellow Catholics ready
to work together.
We purchased 50 of
each of the buttons that were developed by the Healeys for VOTF. Each
current and active member is to get one of each and will choose which
one they will wear to liturgy and other parish activities and the other
they are to give to a friend in the hope of generating interest and participation
in VOTF. By spring, we hope to see these VOTF buttons visible at all liturgical
celebrations.
We are also preparing
to "break bread" with Bishop Irwin who is coming to St. Pius to meet with
and learn about us. We hope to discuss how best to reconcile VOTF membership
with our ongoing activities in every one of the 24 St. Pius V ministries.
From St. Michael's,
North Andover, MA
Reported by Stacey Quealey, Co-Coordinator
Here at St. Michael
in North Andover, we are looking forward to a new year of working more
closely with our neighboring parishes, St. Augustine and St. Robert Bellarmine
(both next door to Andover) and St. Anthony in Lowell (we hope to get
them fully affiliated soon!)
To kick off the year,
we are having a multi-parish meeting on 1/14 and a Voice of Compassion
presentation by David Castaldi and Ken Gosselin.
Every month brings
more opportunity to spread the world about VOTF and make more contacts
within the organization. We are looking forward to a productive year that
will include standing in support of survivors and the crucial rebuilding
and revitalization our Church so desperately needs.
From The Plymouth
Cluster (Plymouth, Kingston, Carver), MA
Reported by Kathleen Leslie
The Plymouth Cluster
recently collaborated with the Duxbury group to have a Healing Mass at
St. Mary's Church in Plymouth. It was a wonderful event with the church
filled to capacity. The local Knights of Columbus assisted us with the
closing candlelight procession. The Mass attracted much publicity in the
local media. Until this Mass, there had been no VOTF-associated event
held in a parish facility in any of our towns. The pastor involved was
comfortable since we were having a Mass - perhaps this is a thought for
others not yet fully established in their parishes. Mass was followed
by a social gathering in the parish center.
To plan the Mass,
we met with the pastor and used the prototype from the VOTF website with
some changes.
From Westford-Chelmsford,
MA - Area Parish Voice
Reported by Mike Gustin and Lauren Franceschi
We are blessed with
a terrific group of dedicated and, as you will see below, very active
individuals in our Parish Voice. At the risk of seeming to monopolize
space, we offer this list for the benefit of other PVs just getting started
and/or unsure of next steps. The work noted began in September.
- Authored "Guidelines
for Staff and Volunteers Working with Youth," which was distributed
to pastors.
- Volunteered three
VOTF members along with other parish reps to attend the Archdiocese
training session and report back to parishes in order to assist parish
staff in training volunteers working with youth.
- Held a Prayer
Service for the Healing of our Church and Victims of Abuse with Eucharistic
Adoration for all parishioners; held a Mass of Hope and Healing for
all parishioners. Both services were planned and executed by VOTF members
with the pastor's help. VOTF hosted fellowship following Mass.
- Offered to pay
for five members of the Clergy and Staff of each parish represented
by our membership to attend a seminar at Merrimack College on "How to
Develop a Pastoral Response in the Current Crisis our Church is Facing."
- Hired renowned
Catholic speaker Eileen Snow to speak to all members of our parishes
on Church History and Vatican II
- Repeatedly invite
all clergy of our parishes to our meetings for their valuable input.
We have members of the clergy of our parishes who attend meetings regularly
and speak openly.
- Had interview
with the pastor to discuss lay support of our priests.
- Encouraged all
parishioners in bulletin messages to support priests with letters and
other gestures of appreciation.
- Encouraged pastors
to continue to pray for survivors, as well as bishops and clergy during
the Prayers of the Faithful at every Sunday Mass.
- Hosted speakers
from Survivors of Joe Birmingham to enlighten us on their experiences
and tell us how we can be effective in supporting survivors.
- Met with Bishop
Emilio Allue to discuss VOTF and correct mistaken impressions of the
group. Wore our VOTF badges to the Mass he visited at our parish. VOTF
members participated in the Mass as Eucharistic ministers, singers,
musicians and ushers during Mass with the Bishop. He said he was impressed
by our dedication as parishioners.
- Invited the cast
of "Godspell," which was being performed at Westford Academy, to sing
a few songs to open one of our PV meetings. It was great for the students
as well as our members!
- Supported four
members of our PV who are running for open seats on the Pastoral Parish
Council. This was directly linked to the direction set by the Structural
Change Working Group.
- We contacted local
radio station WCAP and were guests on the AM talk show for 1 ½ hours.
We invited Olan Horne, representative for Survivors of Joe Birmingham,
to come and speak for survivors. We have been invited back.
- We contacted local
newspapers and had front-page coverage for two consecutive weeks in
the Westford Eagle and Chelmsford Independent. Reporting was accurate.
- We set up our
own website for local info with a link to the National VOTF site. We
are also listed on the town's website under "Churches and Religious
Organizations."
We have taken additional steps specifically in support of survivors.
- Raised over $2,000
cash in "Honey Money" from the donation of honey provided by Gus, our
bee keeper member. We donated goods (pre-paid gas and phone cards) given
directly to Survivor Support advocacy groups. The funds raised helped
to send survivors to the Bishops' Conference in Washington, DC.
- Since the VOTF
Convention in July, we have had reps from our PV standing in solidarity
with survivors outside the Cathedral of the Holy Cross, Boston, nearly
every Sunday.
- We had 20 people,
including one person in a wheelchair, from our PV attend the Candlelight
Vigil outside the Chancery in October in support of the Ford family.
- We had ten people
from our PV attend the Candlelight Vigil in North Andover, in support
of female survivors.
- We have joined
with Survivors of Joe Birmingham in a project at the Catholic Charities
Food pantry in Lowell.
- We have forwarded
articles to our priests that put a human face on how the individual
survivors and their families have been devastated as a result of sexual
abuse by clergy - alcoholism, drug use, depression and suicide.
- Some of our PV
members have become involved with SurvivorsFirst.
From VOTF Winchester
Area, MA
Reported by Bob Morris
Our group has been
meeting every Monday night (holidays excluded) since 5/13. We held three
meetings in December. At our 12/2 meeting, Thomas Carr and Sister Katherine
Donnelly of the Pastoral Response Assistance Team discussed the issue
of sexual abuse by clergy, focusing on the problems faced by victims in
asserting claims of abuse. In their presentations, Tom and Sister Katherine
drew on their wealth of hands-on experience in abuse cases. Their talk
was greatly enhanced by a video of Phil Saviano's speech at the July VOTF
Convention in Boston. Phil is the former New England Regional Director
of SNAP.
On 12/9, we discussed
the VOTF motions calling for Cardinal Law's resignation. The discussion
was sober and thoughtful and represented everything that VOTF stands for
- respecting the voices of all the laity in our Church. Approximately
100 attendees voted overwhelmingly in favor of the resolutions. We instructed
our Council Rep to support the resolutions, which were passed by the Lay
Leadership Council on 12/11.
On 12/9, Fr. Ronald
Gomes celebrated Mass for our group. Fr. Gomes was one of the 58 signatories
to the clergy letter calling on Cardinal Law to resign. The liturgy was
planned by Regina Pontes and others in our group, including St. Eulalia's
Choir Director Andy Smith. Ten members of St. Eulalia's Choir generously
donated their time and extraordinary talent to help make the Mass truly
inspirational. It was a most fitting way to end our first year together.
Throughout November
and December, we raised money for the "survivor baskets" put together
by Susan Renehan. The baskets cost $90 apiece and we were able to donate
enough for nearly 11 baskets. We are so grateful to Susan for her extraordinary
work and to the many who gave so generously.
From VOTF Worcester,
MA Diocese
Reported by Dan Dick
Currently, we are
urging our members to complete the forms and submit same to their pastors
for nomination to the Worcester Diocesan Pastoral Council. We hope to
have representatives on this new DPC.
We are developing
a process for victims and parents of victims of sexual abuse by church
personnel so that they can register the name of the abuser. We find that,
in some cases, either the abuser is dead or the abused family does not
want to come forward. They do, however, want the abuser exposed by being
on a list such as is maintained by SurvivorsFirst or SNAP.
We are somewhat ill
at ease with the Sexual Abuse policy approved by the bishops and the Vatican
in that it puts final decisions into the hands of the bishops. It seems
like asking the fox to guard the henhouse.
We are in the final
stages of setting up an elected table of organization - moderator, recorder,
treasurer and a steering committee composed of the chairs of our various
action committees (education, finance, liaison with National VOTF, parish
outreach, planning, priest support, public relations, victim support and
website.)
From St. Theresa's
in the Worcester diocese
Submitted by Joanne Helhowski
Our meetings are held
monthly in our parish hall. At our last meeting in November, we were very
grateful to have a victim attend and share with us his personal experiences
of abuse and his personal journey toward recovery. The courage it takes
for someone to come forward and share his or her sorrow is inspiring and
heart wrenching and we felt blessed by his presence. Victims gather their
strength to relive the past and speak for those who are not yet strong
enough and speak to protect the innocent children. Along with his personal
story of humiliation and tragedy, some simple suggestions were given regarding
how we can all help survivors. Let us all take these to heart and do our
best to help the abuse survivors, keep the faith, and change the Church!
- Bring hot coffee
to the vigils held each Sunday outside the Cathedral in Boston. Stand
beside the survivors during the Vigil.
- Work to remove
the statute of limitations on clergy abuse.
- Provide donations
to SNAP (http://www.survivorsnetwork.org),
The Linkup (www.thelinkup.com),
Survivors First (www.survivorsfirst.org).
They could use the donations to help for cell phone expenses, travel
expenses to go to press conferences, etc.
- Send letters to
the editors of newspapers when you hear things in the news that disturb
you about this crisis.
- Fight for mandatory
reporting of abuse by clergy in the 30 states without such a law.
In
the News
In
Brief
- Linkup asks
for VOTF's support for their Annual
Healing Conference for survivors.
- Please join the
Paulist Center Community as they honor the recipient of the 2003
Isaac Hecker Award for Social Justice, Thomas P. Doyle, O.P. Canon
Lawyer, Chaplain. More
iInformation
- Jesuit Theologian
Bill Clark to Speak in Maine Parishes on "The Role of the Laity in Today's
Church" Fr. Clark to Speak in Saco on Jan. 22 & Calais on Feb. 2. More
information
- Jayne MacDonald,
Chair of Membership and Recruitment, reports a suggestion from member
Bill Sheehan. Bill proposes that every VOTF member identify ten contacts
- friends, colleagues, extended family - and ask them personally to
visit the VOTF website at www.votf.org. Bill believes it is bound to
grow our numbers, an imperative of future success.
- Please note Jim
Post's speaking schedule in the event you are in the area he is
visiting and the meeting is open to the public. Jim would certainly
value the support and the opportunity to meet fellow VOTFers.
- Remarks
by Steve Krueger at Feast of the Epiphany Memorial Vigil.
- Print
out the entire In the Vineyard newsletter to read at your
leisure or distribute to friends who don't have internet.
- Your donations
to VOTF help us maintain our website, assist new affiliates, and provide
regular communication to members and the media. You can donate
online or mail a donation to us at PO Box 423, Newton, MA 02464.
Thanks for your generosity, which has been tremendous.
Please
forward submissions to In the Vineyard to leaderpub@votf.org.
Please forward submissions
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